Couple in a loveless marriage

      “I’ve fallen out of love with my husband and I want to leave but we have two young children.  We’ve been married for nine years. We have a seven-year-old and a four-year-old.  I can’t help it, but I just don’t love him  any more”.  My client was almost in tears as she was…

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    I have talked with many people who have stayed in an unhappy marriage until the resentment built and they felt they had no choice but to divorce. These people often don’t voice their unhappiness, but rather coast along and go with the flow hoping that their situation will get better, that something will change and the problems will be…

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Why do marriages fail?  While the answers to that question are many and often complex, there is a growing body of research suggesting that there are four negative risk factors- four negative behavior patterns that create barriers to oneness in marriage and increase a couple’s chances for marital failure. In one of the key studies,…

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