The Best Valentine’s Gift of All

Love: The Best Valentine’s Gift of All Understanding how to have a happy,  meaningful marriage first  begins with understanding what it is that all human beings need most.  We all know what that need is. In order to be happy, what we all want and need more than anything else is love. This is the…

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Ten Steps to Restore Your Marriage

How Your Marriage Can Be Saved Getting married is a lot like starting a career, or entering a university degree program. It’s relatively easy to begin, but it is almost a guarantee to be a challenge to stay with for the long term if neglected. And the worst catastrophe would be that you stop trying. …

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Marriage Minute: Reserve Enough for Your Spouse

“But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength…” Isaiah 40:31 If you feel like it’s getting tougher to balance all the competing pressures of life, you’re not alone. In fact, more than three of every five workers find it difficult to balance work, life and family, according to a recent poll released…

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How To Protect Your Marriage & Family

How To Protect Your Marriage & Family By by Roy Milam In our day-to-day lives packed with crowded schedules, carpooling kids, career concerns, and endless errands, the concept of evil may not seem relevant.  Yet Jesus taught us to pray, “deliver us from evil.”  Yes, evil is real and we must not be naïve about…

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Keeping Your Covenant

Keeping Your Covenant By Roy M. Milam “To have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.” We tend to enter marriage with a view that it’s a relationship of convenience, with…

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Do White Lies Have Anything to Do With My Marriage?

It’s Just a Little White Lie By being honest in all areas of your life, you can create a better marriage for you and your spouse. Honesty creates trust and trust is a cornerstone of a happy, healthy marriage. Research shows we lie to our partner an average of 3 times per week.  Generally, the…

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Just Get Over It

Put The Past Behind: “Just Get Over It” “Just get over it! Forget about it okay! If you would just forget about what happened in the past, we could get on with our life.” What this Simple Phrase can Imply An important request, yet when spoken unproductively…in fact, spoken counter-productively can make matters worse.  Perhaps you…

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Strengthen Your Marriage

Six Ways to Keep Your Marriage Strong Through Tough Times by Roy Milam Click on the Internet or turn on the news,and just about all you hear these days is gloom and doom…unemployment is up, the Dow Jones is down, home foreclosures are rising. These are indeed difficult times in which we live, and tough…

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What Do You Really Want For Your Marriage?

We’ve asked that question to hundreds of husbands and wives and most of them say: “I want us to feel the enjoyment and affection we once had in our relationship.” “I want to trust and be trusted” “I want us to have a mutual respect for each another.” “I want us to communicate from our hearts and feel connected in our relationship.” If…

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How to Win Your Wife Back

I have counseled with hundreds of distressed marriages from all across the U.S. and Canada. I’ve listened to a lot of men who’ve shared with me their anguishing experience of being told by their wives that she wants out; she wants a separation or a divorce. Others, distraught and at a point of despair have told me how they came home from work one day, “totally surprised,” only to find their wives had packed their bags and left.

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