Couple in a loveless marriage

      “I’ve fallen out of love with my husband and I want to leave but we have two young children.  We’ve been married for nine years. We have a seven-year-old and a four-year-old.  I can’t help it, but I just don’t love him  any more”.  My client was almost in tears as she was…

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“The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.” (James 5:16)   Dear Friend in Christ, Thank you for visiting us today.  We pray this prayer everyday,  for every person who visits here . We believe and we see it daily; that God is doing a mighty work in marriages  and that your heart, and your…

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     Do you sometimes feel like you and your spouse have drifted into that same-ole, humdrum routine where your day-to-day lifestyle starts making you feel disconnected and stuck in a rut? It’s time to get your marriage out of a rut. Are there more awkward silences in your conversations? Or are you starting to…

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Conflicts Are Inevitable Conflicts are inevitable in every marriage. If you’ve been married for more than a day, you’ve probably seen how seemingly small conflicts can become large.  I submit to you that the biggest battles in your marriage  are not battles just between the two of you. Rather, the biggest battles you fight in…

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A person who is convinced that they have nothing at all to change in their marriage is a person who is well on their way to marital failure. I would be the first to admit, I’m not the same person I was when Sue and I first got married in over 25 years ago. God has had to do a lot…

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Can this marriage be saved? This is a question frequently thought about by couples who feel hurt and hopeless.  It’s not just sad, it is also tragic when a couple loses at love and their marriage falls apart.  Especially where there are children at risk.  If you or someone you love has ever been there,…

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5 Ways To Improve Your Marriage Self-talk Imagine that you have a recording of everything you’ve ever thought about your mate and your marriage. Now imagine you and your mate sitting down to replay it. What would you find? You might be astonished by what you heard. Perhaps you’d find, for example, that you’re saying some nice things about your mate, some internal…

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Since the late 60s with the sweeping sexual revolution and the legislation of no-fault divorce we’ve witnessed the tragic and ever-increasing breakdown of families. We’ve seen marriage become an arena for mere self-fulfillment and sexual expression.  We’ve watched our culture and our court system adopt an “anything goes” mentality-that marriage is okay between any two…

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Having A Marriage Vision Another year is fading into the distant past. A New Year lies ahead. What will it bring? How can you make the coming year a great year for you and your family? One of Charles Shultz’s “Peanuts” cartoons offers a clue. Charlie Brown is sitting in a deck chair near the…

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How 30 minutes a week can re-energize your marriage. Your marriage doesn’t have to be in trouble to benefit from an objective, encouraging third party-a life coach. If couples are able to address an issue, goal, desire, or vision proactively, they can head off any number of potential crises. In the last several years life…

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