How to Survive Infidelity and Restore Your Marriage

Infidelity is devastating. You feel your whole world has been turned upside down.   It’s is the most distressful experience that can happen in a marriage.  At the knowledge of it, you find yourself deeply, deeply hurt, betrayed, and eventually very angry. You feel all alone and if you’re like most spouses who’ve been cheated on…

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Is Your Marriage At Risk of An Affair?

 Take the Marital Affair Risk Assessment and Find Out Answer “yes” or “no” to the following questions and compare your score to the assessment scale below. 1. Are you involved in any opposite-sex personal friendships where you see or talk to each other without your spouse knowing about it? 2. Do you have any opposite-sex friends…

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Is It Possible to Rebuild Trust After An Affair?

    After discovering that her husband had an affair, Phyllis, like many spouses who’ve been devastated by an affair, told me that she had discovered that her husband , Lanny was having an affair, and that she had just found out for certain about the affair 3 days ago.She told me that five or…

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Restoring a Marriage after an Affair

Adultery and Restoring Your Marriage    It’s happened. It was the last thing either of you could ever have imagined that could happen to you.  During more than twenty-five years of helping hundreds of couples avoid this catastrophic marriage event, I have found there are several critical concepts making it possible restore your marriage. I…

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Can a Marriage Heal After an Affair

Perhaps you are going through the searing pain of adultery. If so, my heart goes out to you. You may be wondering “Can a marriage really heal after an affair?” Having worked with distressed couples for over 19 years, I can answer that question with a resounding YES – provided…

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