Posts by Roy Milam

What To Do About A Loveless Marriage

Couple in a loveless marriage

by Roy M Milam, President, Cornerstone Marriage & Family Min       “I’ve fallen out of love with my husband and I want to leave but we have two young children,”  We’ve been married for nine years. We have a seven-year-old and a four-year-old.  I can’t help it, but I just don’t love him  any…

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Marital Affair Risk Assessment

Is Your Marriage At Risk Of An Affair? Take the Marital Affair Risk Assessment and Avoid a Marital Meltdown Answer “yes” or “no” to the following questions and compare your score to the assessment scale below. 1. Are you involved in any close opposite sex personal friendships where you see or talk to each other frequently…

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If That’s Forgiveness, I’d Hate to See Unforgiveness

WWithout a doubt, I think forgiveness has got to be one of the most misunderstood words in our language today.  That’s especially true as it relates to marriage. In counseling couples, I often hear a husband or wife say things about forgiveness that just don’t add up. They often say things like: “I’ve forgiven him/her,…

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Help and Hope for Your Marriage

Couple in a loveless marriage

Every marriage experiences problems sooner or later. No matter how long you’ve been married – whether one year or 40 years, for certain, you will have problems. Marital problems can be immensely intense and painful. They can cut deeply and often last a very long time.    That does not ncessarily mean that your marriage…

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Prayer for Marriage Restoration

“The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.” (James 5:16)   Dear Friend in Christ, Thank you for visiting us today.  We pray this prayer everyday,  for every person who visits here . We believe and we see it daily; that God is doing a mighty work in marriages  and that your heart, and your…

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5 Tips to Get Your Marriage Out of a Rut

by Roy Milam      Do you sometimes feel like you and your spouse have drifted into that same-ole, humdrum routine where your day-to-day lifestyle starts making you feel disconnected and stuck in a rut? Are there more awkward silences in your conversations? Or are you starting to get bored with your marriage relationship? When things…

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Dealing With Anger in Marriage

“Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not so easy” – Aristotle, 384 B.C.  During my 25 years of working with couples in distressed marriages, I would say that anger…

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Fighting for Your Marriage

Conflicts are inevitable in every marriage. If you’ve been married for more than a day, you’ve probably seen that oftentimes even a seemingly small conflict between you and your spouse can turn into a big battle.  I submit to you that the biggest battles in your marriage  are not battles just between the two of…

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Rebuild Trust After An Affair

Rebuild Trust After An Affair                 By Roy Milam, President, Cornerstone Marriage & Family Ministries Janet, like many spouses who’ve been devastated by an affair, told me that her husband , Bob had also been terribly dishonest with her and told her countless lies. In fact he had…

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Marriage Counselor Advises Getting A Divorce

A frantic call came from a distraught mother in Dallas, “My son  Bill, and his wife Carla who live in Houston have an appointment with a lawyer and are going to file for a divorce on Friday. But, they promised to see a Christian marriage counselor if I could  find one who could meet with…

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