About Us

Marriage Counseling  

Cornerstone Marriage & Family Ministries is a non-denominational , Christian marriage counseling ministry founded by Roy & Sue Milam in 1992. The marriage counseling ministry is headquartered in Cypress, Texas (near Houston). The ministry exists to save and strengthen marriages, and equip couples to build their lives, marriages and families on a solid foundation.

Directed by an independent Board of Directors responsible for ministry oversight and accountability, Cornerstone operates as an IRS approved, Tax-exempt, non-profit organization that provides affordable, marriage coaching, marriage counseling, and marriage education services to the public in an ecumenical setting. The success of the ministry is entirely attributed to Christ’s leadership, power, and wisdom.

Roy and Sue Milam Marriage CounselingRoy & Sue Milam…a husband-and-wife team, married for 25 years are co-founders of Cornerstone Marriage & Family Ministries. Serving together as co-directors of the ministry for 18 years, Roy & Sue share a passion for saving marriages and for helping couples build strong marriages and families. Roy Milam, MA, Marriage and Family – Pastoral Care Counselor, Marriage Educator, Author and Speaker, Radio & Television Talk Show Guest, and President of Cornerstone, is an Ordained Minister with over 25 years of combined pastoral ministry, marriage counseling, marriage coaching and training and marriage development experience.

With a passion for helping couples overcome the challenges that adversely affect their marriages, whether it’s infidelity issues, unresolved conflict, or the stress and pressures of life, Mr. Milam works with couples to help them remove barriers to freedom and joy in their marriage. A licensed and ordained minister, member of the Association of Marriage & Family Ministries and the American Association of Christian Counseling, Mr. Milam does not practice as a therapist and does not diagnose mental illnesses or disorders, nor provide treatment for the same. He holds his undergraduate degree in Religion and Biblical Studies. Author of “The Truth About Divorce,Ten Steps to Revitalize Your Marriage,” and “Establishing A Vision for Your Marriage & Family,” Mr Milam, along with his wife, Sue have taught seminars throughout the U.S. helping thousands of people reach their full potential in their marriages.

Derek & Missy Irvin Marriage CounselingDerek & Missy Irvin…A husband and wife team have been married 18 years. Derek is an ordained minister and Pastor of Life Groups and Marriage Ministry at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Missy is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist who works in both as a private practitioner and for the state of Indiana to provide family and child therapy and supervised visitation for children.

Derek & Missy feel blessed to share a combined passion and calling for restoring and strengthening marriages and families. They live in Noblesville, Indiana with their three children.

Dr. Bob Grammer Marriage CounselingDr Grammer… has had a life time of experience in ministry as well as the business world. He has been an ordained minister for 30 years serving churches in Texas and Missouri as well as serving in the Air Force Chaplaincy as an assistant . He practices Pastoral Counseling, as well as marriage counseling, and his 30 years of experience including extensive pastoral counseling.He believes that it is through the truths of God’s Word and our relationship with God that we can be truly be set free from internal conflict, and problems in relationships.

He attended Howard Payne University, Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, North Texas State University, and Andersonville Theological Seminary. He earned his Doctorate in Pastoral Counseling through Andersonville. He is a Licensed Clinical Pastoral Counselor through the National Christian Counseling Association and is a Certified Biblical Counselor through Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.

His professional memberships include the National Christian Counseling Association, American Association of Christian Counseling and the Association of Biblical Counselors.

He is married to his lovely wife Carolyn. He has one natural born daughter and four “adopted” daughters. He has three grandchildren, Joshua, Benea and Joseph.

Julie David, LMFT Marriage CounselingJulie David, LMFT…Has served on the Marriage Counseling team of Cornerstone Marriage & Family Ministries for four years. She too has a passion for working with couples in resolving conflict in their relationships and helping them build strong marriages. Julie was called to the ministry of counseling as a young person in high school and recently received her Masters Degree in Marriage and Family Counseling before earning her license as a LPC Intern. Julie and her husband Daniel married in June of 2006. They celebrated the birth of their first son, Joshua Paul, in 2010. Julie also serves as a counselor at First Baptist Church, Irving, Texas. She enjoys playing with her son, exercising, novels, and movie nights at home with her husband.

Cornerstone Marriage & Family Ministries
Restoring the Promise of a Great Marriage

Preparing Couples for Marriage
Restoring Broken Marriages
Strengthening Stable Marriages

Christian Marriage Counseling – Marriage Intensives – Couples Retreats